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Am I the only person who gets annoyed by the use of "Man Cards" and "Man Points"? 

Men do not have a monopoly on being useful and awesome. Nor should being awesome be something out of the ordinary for men but expected for women, or vis versa. 

I approve of the idea of "Adult Points" for people doing something Like An Adult (or Like A Boss, as I've also heard).
I also approve of the idea of "Brownie Points" for going above and beyond the call of duty in being shiny and awesome.

The idea of giving and deducting Man Cards for conforming to gender stereotypes can fuck right off. 

Anyone with me?

Date: 2012-11-01 01:50 pm (UTC)

Date: 2012-11-01 01:58 pm (UTC)

Date: 2012-11-01 02:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vevaphonics.livejournal.com
Agreed.

Also "Man Up", for similar reasons.
Edited Date: 2012-11-01 02:36 pm (UTC)

Date: 2012-11-01 03:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] casparrrrgh.livejournal.com
In select and specific contexts, I have been know to use man points (namely subversion of hegemonic models).

In general though it's bloody stupid, along with "man up".

Date: 2012-11-01 04:02 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] chess
Hmm. I've mostly encountered 'man cards' and 'man points' in the context of people mocking the idea of gender stereotypes, saying that non-stereotypical activity will endanger someone's man card or that they lost man points for doing something nonstereotypical in order to indicate how daft it is that the activity is considered non-manly...

Date: 2012-11-01 05:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] liz-ddraig.livejournal.com
That's a yes from here too.

Date: 2012-11-01 06:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sarahlascelles.livejournal.com
yep, I'm with you.

Date: 2012-11-01 06:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sarahlascelles.livejournal.com
Also, the concept of 'man flu' annoys me; it's sexist and judgemental garbage, tantamount to saying 'you aren't ill'.

Date: 2012-11-01 07:00 pm (UTC)

Date: 2012-11-01 07:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] riggingchimp.livejournal.com
Yes.

I vote for humanity points, because anyone can be a decent human being, regardless of age... and yes that's an odd statement for me to be making, but occasionally even kids can make my day better.
Edited Date: 2012-11-02 07:43 am (UTC)

Date: 2012-11-01 09:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] islandgorilla.livejournal.com
People are still using 'man points'?
Are they obnoxiously appending 'not' to their sentences and calling each other 'jive turkeys' as well? Good grief.

...Boss points I could get behind. Especially as you don't have to be an adult (or be acting like an adult) to get them.

Date: 2012-11-02 12:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] trail-of-fire.livejournal.com
It's good to read posts like this - I often risk losing context in terms of what language is acceptable in my chosen society, because I'm embedded day-to-day in a sociolect which has its own, very particular, very unique characteristics and semantics which would often be frowned upon in any other setting.

You're right. And thank you :)

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